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Catholic Psychics, Murder, and the New Age: A personal story
By Kitty Cleveland
When I was in my mid-20s, I was introduced to a “Catholic psychic” named Rosie who was visiting Louisiana from California to help a police officer solve a murder. She had helped him solve another murder over the telephone, even down to describing the car used in the crime and an exit off the interstate where it could be found.
Intrigued by the story, I wondered if maybe I could meet with her too. This was the era of Dionne Warwick and the Psychic Friends Network ads on TV. My prayer life and my formation in the faith were both sorely lacking, and I didn’t yet know the biblical prohibition against consulting psychics (and if I did, I was so prideful and dismissive of Church teaching that I would have scoffed at it). Instead, I saw this as an opportunity to have some burning questions of my own answered. I had recently graduated from law school and was depressed and confused, having just spent seven years of higher education preparing for a career I didn’t want. The future looked bleak and joyless to me.
I drove across the Mississippi River bridge to the law office of the criminal investigator, who was loaning Rosie a back room to see clients in exchange for her sleuthing assistance. Rosie was a short and plumpish Italian grandmother, originally from Brooklyn, with curly salt-and-pepper hair tied up on top of her head with a purple ribbon. She reminded me a great deal of the psychic in the movie Poltergeist, and I wondered if perhaps she had taken a cue from her style. After pleasantries, Rosie offered me a seat and asked me to refrain from telling her anything so we could “get a clear reading.” She rubbed her palms on her knees to “get her energy flowing,” and then she started praying in the name of Jesus and asked “only those from the Light” to come forward. She repeated, “Again, only those from the Light.”
I don’t recall many of the details from our first meeting, but there were some uncanny bits of information I do recall: she gave me the first initial of my great grandmother (“A grandmother or great grandmother with the first initial ‘B’ is coming forward”), and she told me that she was wearing pearls. I didn’t even know my great grandmother’s name, but it turned out to be correct—Bertha—and according to my grandmother, “She wore pearls every day of her life.” Rosie said that great grandmother “B” wanted me to know that she was very close to me. She also confirmed my need for creative expression in music and art, both of which had been dormant for years. At the end of our first session, I felt seen, special, understood, and loved by God when we were done. I also felt encouraged for the first time in a long time.
When I met my future husband later that year and I called Rosie for a phone session, she mentioned that my fiancé needed to stop writing on the pad in his car and making “California stops,” or he was going to have an accident (he had a pad mounted to his dashboard that he wrote on frequently while driving, and he had just received a warning from a cop for the “California stop”). I would come to meet with Rosie a few more times by telephone, each time setting me back $100 and giving me lots to think about.
While some of the things she said were encouraging and exciting, I became a little more confused with each session. Some of the things were flat-out wrong, like when Rosie told me I was going to get pregnant and have twins. I became increasingly frantic when I didn’t become pregnant after we got married. Had I done something wrong? And when her words didn’t quite jibe with my own feelings, I would second-guess myself. Was God using her to direct me? Did I need to be obedient to what she was telling me? Did I misunderstand, and that’s why it wasn’t working out? Since my prayer life was inconsistent at best, I trusted her more than I trusted my own discernment in prayer.
All of this came to a head when I attended the CCRNO (Catholic Charismatic Renewal of New Orleans) women’s retreat with the wonderful Fr. Harold Cohen (may he rest in peace). I hadn’t been on a retreat in years, and it was life-giving. During one of the talks Fr. Cohen told us to get rid of our compromises with New Age practices—consulting psychics (there’s no such thing as a Christian psychic!), Reiki or “energy work,” tarot cards, Ouija boards, horoscopes, the Enneagram (I had a number of those books, even some by Catholic authors), numerology, moon and Earth worship, crystal healing, etc. (We could also add to that list the books of Eckhart Tolle, Wayne Dyer, Marianne Williamson, Paulo Coelho, Louise Hay, et al.) Fr. Cohen’s words convicted me to the core. I went to confession, and when I returned home I got rid of everything that had ties to the occult.
So how could Rosie have known all of those things if God or his angels hadn’t revealed them to her, especially since they were kind and encouraging and loving, not evil? Plus, she said she was Catholic! Didn’t that give me some protection and assurance that this was coming from “the Light” of Jesus?
Well, not exactly.
One of the most effective ploys of satan is to appear as an “angel of light” (2 Cor. 11: 14), even to someone who is well-intentioned and only wants to do good. However, there’s nothing holy about contacting the dead, as Scripture clearly forbids this practice:
Let there not be found among you anyone who immolates his son or daughter in the fire, nor a fortune-teller, soothsayer, charmer, diviner, or caster of spells, nor one who consults ghosts and spirits or seeks oracles from the dead.” (Deuteronomy 18: 10-11)
“Do not go to mediums or consult fortune-tellers, for you will be defiled by them.” (Leviticus 19:31)
“Should anyone turn to mediums and fortune-tellers and follow their wanton ways, I will turn against such a one and cut him off from his people.” (Leviticus 20:6)
In a culture that disregards God’s Word and revels in New Age spirituality (even in some Catholic parishes), it’s no wonder that people are confused. Now we have television programs that feature “Catholic psychics” like Long Island Medium, where otherwise devout Christians are tuning in to see audience members weep as she gives them information about their departed loved ones. It gives them hope that they are “in a better place,” or that they are “at peace.” It’s truly sad that they don’t have a strong enough faith life to entrust their loved ones to the mercy of God, with prayers and sacrifices and the sacraments.
So, how is the Long Island Medium able to give her audience members such detail? There are only two possible answers:
Either she’s a fraud, or she’s consorting with demons (and she probably doesn’t even know it).
Given my experience with Rosie, I believe the latter. And in her disregard of the prohibitions in Scripture, Rosie put not only herself in danger but many more souls, as well. Why would a demon help her to solve a crime? you might ask. Perhaps trading a little justice and closure for the family of the deceased was worth it if it meant that many more souls could be dragged into the snares of the occult.
As Christians, we are called to be single-hearted in following the Lord and to rid our lives of any compromises with the enemy. As soon as you see any signs of New Age spirituality in otherwise good material, get rid of it. Satan is much smarter than you are, and he can use even well-intentioned people and seemingly good motives to lead you away from the Lord when it requires disobedience and inordinate curiosity.
As for me, I thank Fr. Harold Cohen for telling me the Truth (admonishing the sinner is one of the spiritual works of mercy) and setting me free from the snares of the enemy. May he rest in peace, and may Rosie and all those who dabble in the occult be likewise set free.
Additional resources:
(A prayer to renounce the occult is below)
To watch me read and comment on this post with my friend Kevin McCall, click here.
For Catholic Magisterial teaching on the subject, see Jesus Christ, the Bearer of the Water of Life: A Christian reflection on the New Age.
For the distinction between consulting the dead and the practice of invoking the saints, see this article.
For the distinction between psychics and authentic Catholic mystics/visionaries, see this article. Note that even holy people can mistake demons for angels, saints, and even Jesus and Mary! That’s why the Catholic Church is very careful before officially stating that the events were supernatural and the messages are worthy of belief. Always look for obedience to the bishop. If the visionary disobeys the bishop, especially when the messages are suppressed, it’s a telltale sign that they are not to be trusted. Even St. Pío (Padre Pío) and St. Faustina were suppressed for a time, and they were totally obedient and docile to their bishops.
For a fascinating and educational look into the life of a modern-day exorcist, see this post by Msgr. Stephen Rossetti (and his other related posts): The Exorcist Diary #129: A Recipe for Possession.
Prayer to Renounce the Occult
“Heavenly Father, in the name of your only begotten Son, Jesus Christ, I renounce Satan and all his works, all forms of witchcraft, the use of divination, the practice of sorcery, dealing with mediums, channeling with spirit guides, the Ouija board, tarot cards, astrology, Reiki, hypnosis, automatic writing, horoscopes, numerology, the Enneagram, all types of fortune telling, palm readings, New Age spirituality, and anything else associated with the occult or Satan. In the name of Jesus Christ who came in the flesh, and by the power of his Cross, his Precious Blood, and his Resurrection, I renounce and forsake my involvement in all of them, and I choose you alone, Lord Jesus.
I confess all these sins before you and ask you to cleanse and forgive me for my divided heart. I ask you, Lord Jesus, to come into my heart, give me your merciful love, and make me holy. I ask you to send forth your Holy Spirit to baptize me with love, just as you baptized your disciples on the day of Pentecost.
I thank you, Heavenly Father, for strengthening my inner spirit with the power of your Holy Spirit, so that Christ may dwell in my heart. Through faith, rooted and grounded in love, may I be able to comprehend with all the saints, the breadth, length, height and depth of Christ’s love which surpasses all understanding. Amen!”
Friend, if you are a baptized Catholic, I urge you to make a sincere confession of your sins to a Catholic priest in the sacrament of reconciliation, which is more powerful than any exorcism. God loves you, died for you, and desires your freedom! Hallelujah!
Kitty’s Links for a Great Lent
As you are probably well aware, the three pillars of Lent are prayer, alms-giving, and fasting. Here are a few of my favorite resources right now in those three categories to make it a fruitful, meaningful Lent:
PRAYER
~ Daily Rosary. My daughter, Ceci, and I lead a LIVE rosary every weekday morning at 6 a.m. CT on Instagram and YouTube, with new meditations every day. We’d love to have you join us live, or just join us as it works best with your schedule. Either way, we’re here for you, God willing!
~ Daily Gospel Reading. I love the Magnificat app and booklet, but I also love the free resource available in The Catholic Company Morning Offering (so rich and lovely!).
~ Daily Mass. If you still have Mass being offered where you live, I want to encourage you to go during the week, at least one day more than you usually go. If you’re afraid of COVID-19, all I can say is that the moment and the manner of your death are in the hands of God. I don’t mean to minimize the risks, but I would personally rather die because I went to Mass than live without the Eucharist. If fear has a grip on you, I’d like to share this beautiful video by Sr. Emmanuel, Consecrate Your Death and Heal from Fear, which will lead you through the consecration of your death–both the date and the manner–as well as that of your loved ones. It really set me free from fear, especially fear for my husband’s possible death from COVID-19 (he did get it and is fine).
~St. Alphonsus Liguori’s Stations of the Cross. Click here for beautiful, heart-level meditations on the suffering and death of Jesus.
~Apostoli Viae. This is a rich website and ministry started by Dan and Stephanie Burke. If you are interested in Carmelite spirituality (St. Teresa of Avila, St. John of the Cross, St. Therese of Lisieux, St. Elizabeth of the Trinity), you will love it. I just downloaded the 40 Days to Peace: a Lenten Journey that Dan put together with Fr. John Bartunek. It’s a beautiful free guide to entering into heart-to-heart prayer with the Lord that I received as a member of the Sojourners group. Click here to be taken to the website.
ALMSGIVING
~ Feed the Hungry, Clothe the Naked, Shelter the Homeless: The need for food, clothing, and shelter during the pandemic has increased exponentially. Please consider a donation to your local food bank and other related charities, like those sponsored by the St. Vincent de Paul Society. In my area, it’s the North Shore Food Bank.
~ Sounds of Peace: I’m so happy to announce that my project to give all of my music away to the needy has received official non-profit status. Hooray! If you would like to make a 100% tax-deductible donation to bring the Sounds of Peace players to those in need of comfort and consolation (especially those who are separated from family due to COVID-19), you can find out all about it–the Miracle Story behind it, How to Donate (and get one for yourself), and incredible Testimonies— by clicking here.
FASTING
~ Taking Care of the Temple, with Kitty Cleveland: If you’ve been praying the online rosary with me these last six months, then you know that fasting is something to which I feel called…and something which is really hard for me! So I started a Facebook group to share articles and resources to help us make fasting a regular part of my spiritual life in the hopes that it might help you, too. If you are a woman, I welcome you to join us. Just search for us on Facebook under the title at the head of this paragraph.
My greatest hope and prayer, friends, is that we make more room in our heart this Lent for LOVE–of God, each other, and even of ourselves. Let’s do this together!
Your sister in Christ,
Fr. Ubald: Funeral Information and Prayer for His Intercession
Prayer for the intercession of Father Ubald Rugirangoga
Heavenly Father, we give you thanks for Your servant and priest Father Ubald Rugirangoga, whose life and ministry manifested the miraculous power of Your Divine Mercy. Facing unspeakable pain and sufferings, he entrusted himself to You through intense prayer and total surrender. In Your infinite goodness, You sent Father Ubald to his beloved Rwanda and to the world as a joyful apostle of peace and reconciliation, preaching forgiveness and healing in the name of Jesus. His testimony, fueled by his love for the Eucharistic Presence and his filial devotion to the Blessed Mother, brought a multitude of souls to the Church and to a living and loving relationship with You in the Holy Spirit.
If it be Your will, O God, glorify Your servant Father Ubald and make known his holiness by granting the favor I now ask through his prayerful intercession: (Mention your request.)
For private use
To report any spiritual or physical favors granted through Father Ubald Rugirangoga’s intercession, please visit https://frubald.com
New Fr. Jacques Philippe book study starts this week!
Hello, friends! I was compelled in prayer this morning to start our new LIVE book study on Interior Freedom (by Fr. Jacques Philippe) this Wednesday, January 20th, from 7-7:30 am CT on Instagram. I will post the videos to IGTV and upload them later to YouTube for those who would like to watch at another time. You won’t be disappointed! You can find the book at www.scepterpublishers.org or at your local Catholic bookstore. Looking forward to you joining us!
Join us for the St. Francis de Sales novena, starting today!
Hello, friends! We began today’s LIVE online rosary with the first day prayers for the novena to St. Francis de Sales, the patron saint of Catholic writers. I really need his heavenly intercession right now so I can finish the book I’ve been working on in fits and starts over the last year! He is such a good friend to have, and his book Introduction to the Devout Life is a classic. If you’d like to have the daily prayers we’ll be using, check out www.praymorenovenas.com. We’d love to have you join us on Monday (weekends are on your own), LIVE on Instagram or YouTube, at 6 am CT.
Yours,
Special Announcement and Rosary Guide for Our LIVE Daily Rosary
Hello, dear friends,
Happy New Year! What a joy it has been for Cecilia and me to have prayed the rosary with you LIVE every day for the last 138 days. The graces and fruits have changed our lives profoundly, and I know for so many of you, as well. After prayerful discernment, Ceci and I have decided to start taking the weekends off from live-streaming the rosary beginning this Saturday, January 2, 2021. We still plan to be on Instagram and YouTube every weekday at 6 am CT, but we hope that this change to our schedule will do two things:
- Allow us to catch our breath and get some rest (especially my teenager) as we pray later as a family; and
- More importantly, encourage you to take this new habit of praying the daily rosary and share it with your family and friends.
“But Kitty,” you might say, “I don’t even know how to pray the rosary on my own, much less make up my own meditations!”
FEAR NOT, my friends. I have compiled this printable rosary guide for you to use, which will guide you through the whole thing. As to the spontaneous meditations, they just come from taking a leap of faith and trusting in the Holy Spirit. You do know that the alternate spelling of faith is R-I-S-K, right? But seriously, you don’t have to have spontaneous meditations. I had no intention of doing them–they just bubbled up from somewhere down deep. So, follow your heart, and let the Holy Spirit take you on a new adventure! God wants to speak to you without a translator–just give Him a chance.
In the meantime, we plan to see you tomorrow morning on New Year’s Day at 7 am CT (an hour later than our usual time to account for midnight fireworks) on Instagram and YouTube. GOD IS GOOD!
All our love and prayers for a grace-filled 2021,
Kitty’s book on the saints
So many of you have written to ask me about the book I occasionally read from before our morning rosary about the saint of the day, that I thought I’d just post this information here on my blog. The book is entitled Saints: A Year in Faith and Art by Rosa Giorgi. You can find it here at Ignatius Press. It’s a lovely little book!
And if you don’t know about the daily LIVE rosary I pray each weekday morning with my daughter, Cecilia, we’d love to have you join us on Instagram or YouTube! M-F at 6 am CT.
How strange life is!
How strange life is: Twenty-three years ago today, my father reported to federal prison for a 10-year sentence after being unjustly convicted of crimes he didn’t commit. What a dreadful day that was. And 850 years ago today, St. Thomas Becket was unjustly and brutally martyred—at the hands of my father’s 23rd great grandfather (among others)!
This recent revelation has given me pause. Not only do I have great saints and great sinners in my family tree, I know that I have the capacity for both in my own soul.
It also reminds me that what man intends for evil, God can work for the good. What a profound mystery and great consolation this is: Through the cross to life!
With all humility, may we each continue to “work out our salvation with fear and trembling,” (St. Paul) treating all with the same mercy and kindness with which we hope to be treated by God upon our death.
My father was ultimately exonerated and now enjoys, I hope and pray, the glory of Heaven with St. Thomas Becket. May all the saints—our big brothers and sisters in the Faith—pray for us until we join their company!
(For my dad’s story in brief: https://youtu.be/j5Nkztwl-fM)
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